Connecting with your spirits guardians, and use their gifts and tools to adapt to use them in your favor.
I relate with judging and quilting other people of my own troubles, and having No success with it, apparently have to remove what was fogging my view and learn from it and listen the message what was trying to be communicate with me by the spirit, until I learned how to listen and went to be doing instead of trying to do.
To deep gratitude all the roles plays on its time, as every day is a journey with the beings who is involved. Beings are not always right nether wrong what we need is acceptance of all of it and free ourselves although we do not like it but bless it.